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I felt so guilty being with her yesterday. But it was just what I needed � I think.
�Your too beautiful to be so unhappy. What�s happening to you?�
�I�m not unhappy. Just right now things are difficult. She�s finding her independence u know? We were fortunate to get that college experience. You went to Miami to play ball and I went to Virginia to � I don�t know what I went to Va. for but you get what I�m saying. We�re just busy trying to get her into school right now. She has enough pressure on her � I don�t wanna add to that.�
�So you suffer � and feel alone? Tell me how much sense that makes?�
�I�m not suffering � everything is just at a standstill right now. *sigh* I don�t know.� A tear rolled down my cheek. She wiped it with her thumb.
�You know you�re better than this ma � I�m not saying that you�re better than HER but this situation � you�re better than it.�
�You don�t understand. I love her with everything in me. Everyone expects me to just give up on my relationship. My love for her exceeds that. Don�t you get that? Does anyone get that?�
�Yeah I get that. But what I don�t understand is why she can�t step up to the plate and see that you�re hurting. Look at you! You�re worn OUT. She needs to handle her responsibility.� She was angry and she was making me angry also.
�Don�t do that! Don�t downplay my relationship. She loves me! PERIOD. You know what � we shouldn�t even be having this conversation. Look, I�m coming to you as a friend. That�s what I need you to be. If you�re going to criticize what I have maybe this was a bad idea.� I got up to leave.
�Sit down. � Sit down Dannie. You know I�m always there for you. That�s a given. I�m just worried about you. I expected to see you happy. Glowing like you do when you�re in love. Not like this.�
�I look at her picture and I see us � in our home � our future � together. Raising Je�Carri and Jay�Lin.�
�Je�Carri and Jay�Lin?� I smiled.
�Our children. Our life. I don�t see my future without her.� She just nodded and kept eating.
�You�re losing weight. Not eating again hu?�
�I eat thank-you-very-much! You sound like Gemille. I�m trying to get in shape. I want to strip.�
�Who is Gemille and DO WHAT!!�
�Tara�s best friend and yes I said strip.�
�Hell NO. My girl or not � yo ass wont be stripping that�s for damn sure.�
We laughed. Then silence. We talked about school, sports, Jay-Z, children and all the other little things in life. I had forgotten how much I missed that Montero Sport. I got in like she was mines boy. We drive around and it�s way past my time to be home. I don�t want the night to end though � I missed her. We hug goodbye and she pecks my cheek. I get in my car and before she closes the door she ask me, �How are you so sure she�s not out doing God knows what while your out working your ass off for her?�
I shrug. �I don�t know. But I put my faith � my trust and my love into this. And into her. I think that goes far beyond knowledge.�